A flexible plan can make shared play feel less pressured. Use these points to think about when to begin, when to pause, and what to pay attention to.
Offer a break when baby seems tired
If a baby becomes tired or fussy during play, take a break. You can return to an activity another time rather than completing a planned game.
THE POINT TO REMEMBER
A break respects the cues you are noticing.
Let the baby’s cues guide the length
Watch the baby in front of you rather than matching someone else’s timetable. A short, settled moment can be a useful place to stop.
THE POINT TO REMEMBER
Pay attention to the baby in front of you.
Read it. Try it. Come back to why.
Read one point at a time, then use the linked scenario to check your understanding. The practice is a chance to return to the explanation and reflect, rather than a measure of parenting ability.
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