1–2 years · Connection & growing · 3 MIN LESSON

Two little choices.

Turn a vague instruction into a small, clear choice.

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How to give toddlers clear, manageable choices

Explore the knowledge behind every question, with linked explanations and original sources.

Use simple words to say what you want your child to do. Offer two acceptable options when there is room for choice.

At getting-dressed time, try offering two suitable tops. Adapt the words and support to what your child can manage today.

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“Stop being difficult.”“Be good.”“Choose the striped top or the plain top.”

A practice, not a parenting test.